Ne Dis Jamais Je T’aime (Never Say I Love You)

“Paris is not a city; it is a world.” — King Francis I
There is a rule in photography: look for the light. But in Paris, you don’t have to look for it. The light finds you.
Standing at the base of the Eiffel Tower, looking up as the iron lace glows gold against the deep blue twilight (the “Blue Hour”), I realized why this city is the global capital of romance. The title of this story—Ne Dis Jamais Je T’aime—means “Never Say I Love You.”
Why? Because in Paris, you don’t need to say it. The city says it for you.
The Language of Silence
Generations of lovers have stood where I stood to take this shot. They come expecting a cliché, but they leave with a memory. When the tower sparkles, the noise of the city fades away. You don’t need words. The architecture, the Seine flowing nearby, and the cold breeze do all the talking. This iron giant, which was once hated by critics, has become the universal symbol of enduring love. It stands tall, unshakeable, and breathtakingly beautiful—just like love should be.
The Runway of the World
But Paris isn’t just about hearts; it’s about style. As the global capital of fashion, Paris demands that you look up. The Eiffel Tower itself is the ultimate fashion statement—industrial yet elegant, rigid yet curvy. It is the original “avant-garde” masterpiece. Walking the streets here, you realize that fashion isn’t just about clothes; it’s about attitude. It’s about standing out while fitting in, just like the Iron Lady stands out against the skyline yet fits perfectly into the soul of France.
A Photographer’s Note
Capturing the Eiffel Tower is tricky because it has been photographed a billion times. To get this shot, I moved closer. I looked up. I wanted to capture the texture of the iron, the warmth of the lights, and the overwhelming scale of it. It’s a reminder that sometimes, the most beautiful things in life make you feel small.
To the couples visiting Paris: Don’t just take a selfie. Put the phone down. Hold hands. And remember: Ne dis jamais je t’aime. Let the view say it for you.
